Forgive

imageReaching out to someone you fell out with, making the first move towards reconciliation is never a weakness. We too often lose people we love and who truly love us for pride. Whatever the issue is, understanding and forgiveness are the key words, the answer. We all do the best we know and can and we need to understand everyone else is doing the same. Try not to judge others by their actions and yourself by your intentions. When we make the effort to save the relationship instead of losing it, love grows stronger.

As long as we struggle to be understanding, tolerant, forgiving and loving in our personal lives, don’t expect the world to know peace. We are all one and all we do in our personal lives, how we deal with our issues in our relationships have an impact on the rest of the world. I believe that what happens around the world, on both national and international levels, is but a reflection of what we are doing in our lives, on a smaller scale. Who we are and what we do affects others as well as who they are and what we do. Let’s all inspire each other to be the best version of ourselves we can be. I think we can do better than this.

“The more we just let go of the issues we have with other people and realise that they are actually reflecting something back to us about ourselves, the quicker our note changes pitch.”

Forgive

Nothing happens to you, Everything happens for you

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Any situation or people that challenge you aren’t here to hurt you or bring you down. They’re here to help you build your strength as well as polish your soul and heart. Pay attention to any negative emotions that arise in you. If they try your patience, then you need to work on becoming more patient. If they shake your trust, it means you need to work on building your trust. If you were patient and had trust, then whatever the situation happens to be or whatever people try to do to you wouldn’t throw you off balance and make you impatient or make you rust less. You would be indifferent to people’s actions. So rather than seeing them as threats or bad people doing bad things to you, focus on the lessons and learning them. Next time you find yourself in similar situations you’ll see that you’re stronger or the situation won’t even happen again, simply because you’ve already learnt the lesson. So you won’t attract the same experience again.

People often get this wrong and see others or a situation as enemies to be fought and knocked down. That is a pure waste of energy and takes your focus away from the lessons, making you weak and more vulnerable to similar situations. They are not enemies. They are also humans, or rather souls having a human experience, just like you, making mistakes, because they don’t know better. If you fight them, besides not helping yourself, you’re also making it harder for them to learn their lessons. You cannot get rid of hate by hating back.

The same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg. It’s not about the circumstance, but rather what you are made of”

Nothing happens to you, Everything happens for you